Monday, November 17, 2014

Asking for Favors

I despise asking people for favors. I have two main reasons.

  1. I am shy. It's difficult for me to talk to people in the first place, so asking them to do stuff for me is even worse.
  2. It makes me feel weak, like I need that person. I don't like being dependent on someone. I want to be independent and self-sufficient.
However, I do like being asked for a favor because it makes me feel needed.
So I want other people to need me, but I don't want to need other people.
I guess I just like to fend for myself. Not have to need anyone else. That's why I hate group projects. I'd rather just do it all myself, so nobody will argue with me and I can get credit for everything.

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